ATURAN PERGAULAN DALAM MASA PINANGAN PERSPEKTIF HADIS DAN REALITA DI MASA KINI
Keywords:
Pergaulan; Pinangan; Hadis; Masa KiniAbstract
Islam strongly recommends starting a marriage with a sermon or proposal. The reality that occurs today is that teenagers who are in the process of being proposed to go beyond the limits of propriety, such as having seclusion with the woman they are proposing to, this act is clearly prohibited by religion. Even though the sermon process itself is stated in the hadith, it is only permitted to see and what is seen is limited to nothing more than that. The formulation of the problem in this research is: What is the quality of the hadith about the sermon? What is the analysis of the hadith about the sermon? and What is the reality of relationships during the current engagement period? This research uses library research with a qualitative approach and descriptive analysis methods. The hadith research method used is the ma'anil hadith method. The results of this research show that the hadith regarding the permissibility of seeing the person you are asking for hasan lighairihi quality and can be used as proof. The status of the man and woman being proposed to are still strangers, so interaction between them is still limited. The reality nowadays is that if you have been proposed to, prohibited relationships are permitted.
Keywords: Association; Proposal; Hadith; Present time